Oooookie dokie...slighty traumatized my coddled child with "forest school" today... uhmmm ...he had an overall great time ...but aaah fack was "HIGHLY" TF OFFENDED that a 3 year old was crying and no one was rushing to save her ......he said even ...thru tears ...a 3 year old was crying mom...and no one was helping her ...awe ...lol..i said i know bud...but she was ok.....NO!!! NO SHE WASNT MOM!!! thats sick! ...lol...
Its child led learning ...and learning thru play ...the kids figure things out on their own and grow thru ...experiences like this little girl had...i said i know why you felt that way hun...its a different type of environment and learning...its teaching her to handle her own emotions and be independent...and problem solve ...she was safe and didnt die?? ...did she?? ... he hates the awesome teacher ... awe ...i teased him a bit n said...i know babe...its cuz you re used to mama ...helping you with a lot of stuff ...and oh my goodness my little baby waby ...you seem to have a slightly perceived minut little differentiation in skin texture there on your hand... are you ok???!!... let mommy put some cream n kissy wissy it better...oh shit ...this was a shock to his world...
The kids arent told what to do...no ones bitching at him to eat his lunch..the teacher will never tell him to...he decides what's right for him...each kid does .....sandwhich first etc...or not eat whatever scrapes are not treated as open heart surgeries he is not used to this ...hes not wanting to do it...*there are some "triggers" from past ppl he has not liked (that the teacher reminds him of in ways) or been upset about...or ppl he thought he could trust that changed and betrayed him...so...thats ok...i said i was so proud of him for giving it a try ...we discussed a lot about the psychology behind the perceived horrifying cruelty and the associations of past upsetting things with him.. its a completely different style of learning and environmrnt ...shocked his system n shook up his little coddled world of pillowy safeness with mama ...i said he can change his mind in the future ..if wants..check it out again...etc...he HATES the teachers style...i think shes fantastic!...but can understand why its "upsetting" to him ...hes used to structured things ...and things about this teacher bothered him...that wouldnt others perhaps ...but im seeing the connections hes making to past ppl...events and a completely different type of learning and way than hes used to...proud he tried it tho...
Thought hed wanna be outa the shit apt doing book work with smokey ole bitchy mom...nope ...he likes it this way omg thats a shame! ..a gorgeous provincial park with really cool kids ..and like do whatever tf you want basically!!.. if i were a kid ...i'd be the one trying tf to hide in the forest and never come home......he was "offended" ... he literally said..."no mom! ...im like offended!!!!" ... oh man!... and when the younger child was crying he used the word
"horrified " as to how he felt it was handled or the treatment she received... she was just left to figure it out ...self regulate ...and learn independance ...he could NOT tolerate this...jesus christ ive created a snowflake......who's "offended" at not being bloody coddled ...or if other children arent!...hes a sensitive wee empathic beautiful little boy...in my opinion he NEEDS MORE FOREST SCHOOL!!... but if hes super uncomfortable and he massively dislikes her or way of teaching children.. its not for him i guess perhaps at this moment anyhow....and that's ok.. i would never force him...even when the psychology was explained to him ...he was still extremely pissed .. and adamant... in his opinion...this is not tf ok...and very wrong and evil...cruel...etc...k bud......im proud of you for trying something new...n lets focus on the good pieces...and nice things you did with the kids...and fun you had etc..."well i hate her ...and i dont wanna go near her again...i get bad vibes he says and i think shes mean"... awwwwe let mama kissy wissy your scrapey wapey all better oh no...lol my little baby boy... is a prime snowfake .....
Hes not used to it...doesnt like the lady ...whatever ..just thought he may...he wants to be with the kids but her to vanish...essentially..
He perceives some of her actions as uncaring ..."horrifying" when its actually ensuring children uhmmm ...arent dependent and have confidence to navigate things themselves ..problem solve etc...sooooo they dont end up sorta ...like my lil sweet mama coddled baby boy
(Just kidding sorta) hes an exceptionally amazing child in many ways xo
Oooookie dokie...slighty traumatized my coddled child with "forest school" today... uhmmm ...he had an overall great time ...but πŸ˜… aaah fack was "HIGHLY" TF OFFENDEDπŸ˜† that a 3 year old was crying and no one was rushing to save her ...πŸ˜…...he said even ...thru tears ...a 3 year old was crying mom...and no one was helping her😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ...awe ...lol..i said i know bud...but she was ok..πŸ˜ƒ...NO!!! NO SHE WASNT MOM!!! thats sick! ...lol... Its child led learning ...and learning thru play ...the kids figure things out on their own and grow thru ...experiences like this little girl had...i said i know why you felt that way hun...its a different type of environment and learning...its teaching her to handle her own emotions and be independent...and problem solve ...she was safe and didnt die?? ...did she?? ... he hates the awesome teacher ...πŸ˜… awe ...i teased him a bit n said...i know babe...its cuz you re used to mama ...helping you with a lot of stuff ...and oh my goodness my little baby waby ...you seem to have a slightly perceived minut little differentiation in skin texture there on your hand...πŸ˜… are you ok???!!πŸ˜ƒ... let mommy put some cream n kissy wissy it betterπŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£...oh shit ...this was a shock to his world...πŸ˜† The kids arent told what to do...no ones bitching at him to eat his lunch..the teacher will never tell him to...he decides what's right for him...each kid does .....sandwhich first etc...or not eat whatever πŸ˜…scrapes are not treated as open heart surgeries πŸ˜…πŸ˜† he is not used to this πŸ™ƒ...hes not wanting to do it...*there are some "triggers" from past ppl he has not liked (that the teacher reminds him of in ways) or been upset about...or ppl he thought he could trust that changed and betrayed him...so...thats ok...i said i was so proud of him for giving it a try ...we discussed a lot about the psychology behind the perceived horrifying cruelty πŸ˜… and the associations of past upsetting things with him.. its a completely different style of learning and environmrnt ...shocked his system n shook up his little coddled world of pillowy safeness with mama πŸ˜…...i said he can change his mind in the future ..if wants..check it out again...etc...he HATES the teachers style...i think shes fantastic!...but can understand why its "upsetting" to him ...hes used to structured things ...and things about this teacher bothered him...that wouldnt others perhaps ...but im seeing the connections hes making to past ppl...events and a completely different type of learning and way than hes used to...proud he tried it tho... Thought hed wanna be outa the shit apt doing book work with smokey ole bitchy momπŸ˜…πŸ˜ƒ...nope ...he likes it this wayπŸ˜†πŸ€£ omg thats a shame! ..a gorgeous provincial park with really cool kids ..and like do whatever tf you want basically!!πŸ˜ƒ.. if i were a kid ...i'd be the one trying tf to hide in the forest and never come home...πŸ˜†...he was "offended" πŸ˜†... he literally said..."no mom! ...im like offended!!!!" ...πŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ˜†πŸ˜† oh man!... and when the younger child was crying he used the word "horrified " as to how he felt it was handled or the treatment she received🀣... she was just left to figure it out ...self regulate ...and learn independance ...he could NOT tolerate thisπŸ˜†...jesus christ ive created a snowflake...🀣...who's "offended" at not being bloody coddled 🀣...or if other children arent!πŸ˜ƒ...hes a sensitive wee empathic beautiful little boy...in my opinion he NEEDS MORE FOREST SCHOOL!!πŸ˜ƒ... but if hes super uncomfortable and he massively dislikes her or way of teaching children.. its not for him i guess perhaps at this moment anyhow....and that's ok.. i would never force him...even when the psychology was explained to him ...he was still extremely pissed ..πŸ˜… and adamant... in his opinion...this is not tf ok...and very wrong and evil...cruel...etc...k bud...πŸ₯°...im proud of you for trying something new...n lets focus on the good pieces...and nice things you did with the kids...and fun you had etc..."well i hate her ...and i dont wanna go near her again...i get bad vibes he says and i think shes mean"...πŸ˜ͺ awwwwe let mama kissy wissy your scrapey wapey all betterπŸ˜† oh no😬...lolπŸ˜…πŸ˜†πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£ my little baby boy...πŸ™ƒ is a prime snowfakeπŸ˜† ..😢... Hes not used to it...doesnt like the lady ...whatever ..just thought he may...he wants to be with the kids but her to vanishπŸ˜…...essentially..πŸ€” He perceives some of her actions as uncaring ..."horrifying" when its actually ensuring children uhmmm ...arent dependent and have confidence to navigate things themselves ..problem solve etc...sooooo they dont end up sortaπŸ˜… ...like my lil sweet mama coddled baby boyπŸ˜…πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ’― (Just kidding sorta) πŸ˜‚ hes an exceptionally amazing child in many waysπŸ₯° xo πŸ’―
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